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2 Children (D12, S15)
9/20/05 - Seperated
4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped
4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love
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faith???? in what ?? in who ?? ive prayed and cried my eyes out. it hasnt helped. im still in the middle of a divorce i dont want !! theres no one listening to my prayers.

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Faith in God.

We're all in situations we don't want to be in. My W filed day 1 of our forced separation. I'm still here fighting. God has answered so many of my prayers in the last 2+ months, I would/could NEVER doubt his goodness to me.

Does that automatically mean my D is not going to happen, and my W will come back today, NO - she has free-will, she can ignore God's promptings, but I can't.

Good things will happen for me not matter what happens with my M/R. When you get to that point you'll feel a lot better.


We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...

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i thought "GOD" didnt want divorces? you would think he might do a little more helping in this area. ive prayed, changed religions,begged, cried and did everything under the sun to beg for help or even signs that he is here helping me or even exists. what more does he want from us?

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Originally Posted By: hurtnangry
i thought "GOD" didnt want divorces? you would think he might do a little more helping in this area. ive prayed, changed religions,begged, cried and did everything under the sun to beg for help or even signs that he is here helping me or even exists. what more does he want from us?


changed religions?

begged who?

Cried to who?


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exactly to WHO?

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it would be nice if he would show us if he even exists.

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no - were you crying in prayer? Begging God? I don't think God works that way.....

I understand it but maybe you need to evaluate your prayers. Didn't know if you were crying and begging to your spouse or in prayer?

Weeping - I think God understands that but you know God's not like Santa Clause..........


....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
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..."Nobody's Fool"...

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then why even pray.

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what were you praying for?

Prayer shouldn't be used like Santa - like I said.

Yes - you have not because you ask not - but it's NOT in YOUR timing that things happen and that is what is so hard to grasp and accept as a human KWIM?


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..."Nobody's Fool"...

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