Lou, don't know you, but do have some affection for you & BB all the same.

I wish she would be willing to make some changes and put some effort into your SL.

Unfortunately, if she's NOT willing to make any changes whatsoever, just like Cemar & AC, then there are decisions to make and I know you have chosen to stay and pray like mad \:\)

I still would have to wonder if she really "gets it." It broke my heart to hear my H say he actually felt rejected by me not wanting or not having sex w/ him. I never realized that's how he felt or that's how it made him feel.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10