Yup, get it said. That seems to be my feeling right now on getting things straightened out. I have seen that too often I think things in my sitch are the way they are because W won't speak up and say something. So she's not happy and I'm already "behind the curve, trying to catch up". Considering how many relationship and marriage classes we took early in our R, it amazes me that we're in this sitch. Anyhow, time to make plans and move forward with "the program" the best I can. Good luck o "power point" godess!