Be careful man, your are emotionally vulnerable right now. IF you are doing what I think you are suggesting, what is a matter of time, if this person means this much to you, get to know them, allow wounds to heal.
Please, please, please, take a small ammount of advice from someone who gone a bit before you. Make sure you do not hurt this person, do not hurt yourself, this can be a vicious cycle you are heading into.
Go slow, make sure that you do not hurt this person, they are undeserving of it.
We stand as long as we can, but when we stop standing, we need to catch our breaths.
Respectfully, Jack
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK