He's doing pretty good. There wasnt much I could do other than make sure he had everything he needed and I started a couple loads of laundry for him. I stayed til about 7pm and dropped his prescription off at the drug store for him. I am going back over in the morning before I go to work. Of course, I will call in a little bit to check on him.
You know, and this is for that chick in Kansas, I reached a point where I just quit talking to him. I figured my actions would speak louder than my words. Over time, a LOT of time, I think he is coming to believe in me again. And he has to do that before he can ever believe again in us.
I want to have "Come a little bit closer baby" as my one request for daughter's wedding. She and F SIL are country fans. That is my theme for TJ and his MLC.
PS. I think it is working.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
I know. The valley is a scary place and the enemy is there because that is where he wants to keep you.
OMG. Something just occured to me.
Remember when I had the word "fortify" stuck in my head for days and then went to the battlefield with D11 and read that sign that said "field fortification" and it told how the soldiers dug out the ground and piled the dirt up along the sides and they could see the enemy coming but the enemy couldn't see them? I have said they were in a hole but it was a valley.
And yes, they dug it themselves but they were protected there.
Because you will also recall that when I looked into the word "fortify" it meant "strengthened to stand".
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
