ks- i have tried that one but my girls r very persistent and will not just let it go!

unbroken,

Thanks 4 your encouragement. For a second there I thought what I did was wrong and I was beating myself up for it!! I really really needed to hear it's ok to cry infront of them b/c they are three and it's hard not to. I was being soooo strong for the longest and that was when i was doing my best to detach,but I totally lost it yesturday and it seemed as though i could not stop....