The bottom line w/ both you and AC are that you either (1) need to tell your wives in exact terms how them not wanting or needing to have sex with you affects you emotionally & mentally OR (2) live w/ it b/c it most likely won't change -- she will have no reason to change if she doesn't know she needs to make changes.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
