Talk to her about finances then. Doesn't really have anything to do with your R (I mean indirectly it does, but not like asking her when you can come home).
It does show a level of responsibility on your part, just let her be part of the solution, don't solve everything for her.
Listen, understand, get to solutions together.
Good luck!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
