Quit worrying about what everything means and where she's at.... you've done your best. And don't expect anything!! Remember give without expecting and if she likes it great... and if she doesn't just know that you HAD FUN GIVING and life is good!!!!

P.s. I really hate when people give me gifts and EXPECT me to act a certain way in response to it.

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.