How hard could this be? I'm thinkin that this phrase would be music to most men's ears.
Oh, some might like it at first but eventually they'd be thinking "Have you no tender, demure feminine sensibilities? I am a man not a jungle gym (sniffling). Be off with you, lioness-monkey-girl! Leave me to piece back together the shreds of my manhood that you have ravaged (holding back the tears)."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Oh, some might like it at first but eventually they'd be thinking "Have you no tender, demure feminine sensibilities? I am a man not a jungle gym (sniffling). Be off with you, lioness-monkey-girl! Leave me to piece back together the shreds of my manhood that you have ravaged (holding back the tears)."
well...maybe just the "4s"...which is what you are used to. Careful not to project that attitude onto the rest of the population.
Oh, some might like it at first but eventually they'd be thinking "Have you no tender, demure feminine sensibilities? I am a man not a jungle gym (sniffling). Be off with you, lioness-monkey-girl! Leave me to piece back together the shreds of my manhood that you have ravaged (holding back the tears)."
Oh really??? You think it is that way?
How about you might start to like thr sex buddy or he might like you and the feelings might not be mutual. I see that happening more than a guy saying Leave me to piece back together the shreds of my manhood that you have ravaged..
That Leave me to piece back together the shreds of my manhood that you have ravaged was your 2BX, not all other guys.
But what do I know. Maybe you might or might not attract another guy like your 2BX.
Mojo, just give it time. From where I sit you have too much $$ stuff to iron out right now.
I also can relate to this ..."I'm feeling irritable. Let's f*ck so I can better concentrate on my work then you go away." Change the go away to come back in two days.
well...maybe just the "4s"...which is what you are used to. Careful not to project that attitude onto the rest of the population.
Don't worry. At my darkest moments all I have to do is think "Remember Cemar" and I remember it is true that there are some men who would love to be treated like a penis with a man attached.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
How about you might start to like thr sex buddy or he might like you and the feelings might not be mutual.
That's why I said I wanted a Type 3 sex buddy. I can have seriously good sex with a Type 3 but I can't form an emotional attachment and vice versa.
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Mojo, just give it time. From where I sit you have too much $$ stuff to iron out right now.
So true. Not just $$$ stuff either. I really don't think I should be dating because I'm kind of like a harried housewife who finds out at the last minute that guests are dropping by. I'm "not ready for company."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
It would be fun to be treated as a penis with man attached. Not ever going to happen for me. But I would love to be treated as a LOVER, and not a chore, or not as a friend, or not as DAD, or not as the handy man.
a Type 3 sex buddy Sometimes I can imagine the FWB/SB concept but I switch into the LTR/keeper mode too much to be in your mind set or much help to you. That is me. I never was a player. Never mastered that.
As far the $$, what is a good investment, how much I am willing to pay for something, fix something up, I have that down, maybe too well.
Company comming? Let me get out the "Ritz" crackers. I am cool.
Sometimes I can imagine the FWB/SB concept but I switch into the LTR/keeper mode too much to be in your mind set or much help to you. That is me. I never was a player. Never mastered that.
Sometimes a f*ck buddy isn't a player but just a friend you have sex with or sometimes just someone to whom you're sexually attracted but not otherwise but it's not really a matter of either of you trying to "score". For instance, the summer I was 20 I hung out with 2 other girls who were both dating golf-playing Republican boys so I ended up dating one too and we'd all go out or party as a group. He was quite good looking and the sex was more than adequate but there was no other level on which we were going to "click". I can't even remember how or why we stopped seeing each other.
But, I say, to thine own self be true, Lou.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Sometimes a f*ck buddy isn't a player but just a friend you have sex with or sometimes just someone to whom you're sexually attracted but not otherwise but it's not really a matter of either of you trying to "score".
I wasn't thinking about scoring. I can grasp the ides of a friend just for sex. That part is easy. The more difficult part for me is once the sex happens and it is good, other feelings of atachment start to grow. feelings of obligation/dedication grow. but I never tried the FWB situation so maybe I could if I and she were single.
I am not at that bridge so don't need to do any acting any time soon.
