Geesh, before my trip to Asia, I wrote a few emails that I realize now were pretty judgemental ... at the very least : preachy.
It had to happen. I don't regret it (weeeelllll, maybe a little ), I do beleive everything happens for a reason.
24 hour rule, did you use it? If the shoe was on the other foot, and you got an email like that how would you respond/react?
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I realize that I have been doing a lot of the shutting out in the H sitch. I see now how ever since a kid I would close down like that to beat people to the punch.
Ouch. I can look in a mirror and repeat those words. I know I do it, and I try to stay open but sometimes the pain gets so unbearable that I shut down. It's coming back out time after time that makes me wonder if I am a sain person.
How do you put your toe in the water to start accepting H's friends? He has offered and invited you, are you going to accept?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
