well...maybe just the "4s"...which is what you are used to. Careful not to project that attitude onto the rest of the population.
Don't worry. At my darkest moments all I have to do is think "Remember Cemar" and I remember it is true that there are some men who would love to be treated like a penis with a man attached.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver