Hi, H is being honest with me, he also has something back that hasn't been there in a couple of years...I can't put my finger on it....just something, renewed. I am having a very hard time with the fact that H works with OW , he says they don't even talk and if they have to it is work related only. The problem is before this all happened I would never have doubted he had anything but a working realtionship with any woman in the office. This OW is a shark...she digs her claws in and gets what she wants...I blame my H for his actions 100% but OW came to him and allowed him to do whatever knowing he was married. I want my marriage to work and slowly more and more is coming out. I am making a conscious effort to ask questions slowly. We start counseling next week. Mimi...your question about yelling...My H has been rotten to me, right up to a couple of days before he told me what he was thinking. The only reason he didn't do it a few days before is that I would not give him the time of day. Why is this so hard? We did go out on a "date" last night. Dinner and drinks. We had so much fun and it was like the old days. Do you think I should have him move home to work on things or stay at his mom's until I am ready....I am torn, he comes over everyday to see me and the girls... I have so much anxiety about this today!
