Oh, some might like it at first but eventually they'd be thinking "Have you no tender, demure feminine sensibilities? I am a man not a jungle gym (sniffling). Be off with you, lioness-monkey-girl! Leave me to piece back together the shreds of my manhood that you have ravaged (holding back the tears)."
Oh really??? You think it is that way?
How about you might start to like thr sex buddy or he might like you and the feelings might not be mutual. I see that happening more than a guy saying Leave me to piece back together the shreds of my manhood that you have ravaged..
That Leave me to piece back together the shreds of my manhood that you have ravaged was your 2BX, not all other guys.
But what do I know. Maybe you might or might not attract another guy like your 2BX.
Mojo, just give it time. From where I sit you have too much $$ stuff to iron out right now.
I also can relate to this ..."I'm feeling irritable. Let's f*ck so I can better concentrate on my work then you go away." Change the go away to come back in two days.