I think all that we do (your list above) should be enough for us to stay slim & trim!!! Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. Then also, here in TX, during the spring/summer months it gets so dang hot that you can't just go for a walk or a run.

I honestly think that men & women just see things so very differently and it's hard for the other to even *get* where the other is coming from.

We women allow ourselves to stress over the children, laundry, house, etc. in totally different ways than men do. We want to be perfect and that's not possible & it pisses us off.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10