Im'se still posting in the infidelity forum But i still read and post sometimes in the MLC and the PIecing forum I just don't feel i should come hear permanentaly yet even though thinngs are going pretty good.

I think most of our issues right now are sthings i need to work through in my own time.( you can read my threads).

I have the same Question. How can H qwork with OW and not be connected any more H says he can't switch unless they have what they call a shape up. And then i want him to wait and see what she does and do the opposite. I think that is not to much to ask and if it is really over he shouldn't have a problem. I think of that is a boundry and he should validate it.

JAK

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