okay, what about this.

Tell H, that you would actually like to go with him.

Just because your both their and PW is there, doesn't mean they have to socialize. There are other people there too right? Now if it's just a couple people other than you two, well, that might make it a little difficult.

Also, if you show up, and PW IS there. This might be good in regards to HER. Remember the time at the races when you were doing great and GALing and fun and confident, and PW was acting all pathetic? What if you go, and are very confident and fun.. I bet PW will feel a little insecure, or stupid or something, just like before. Even if she doesn't show it on the outside, I know she'll be feeling it on the inside.

Soooo, lets also say that you told H,.. "hey, can we have a code word/phrase to let each other know we want to leave party and get a little freaky somewhere?" ;\) then it's not all about PW. Or you could whisper in his ear about all the crazy things you want to do to him and does he want to go for a little "drive" in the country? ;\)

I know, your so inbetween a rock and a hard place. It's so not fun. If you go out, just imagine PW to have warts all over her face, because if her insides where to show itself on her outside, she would be covered in them! ;\)

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."