No clue as to what we expect. I think my H could tell me until he was blue in the face that he still loved my body, but if I don't love it, that doesn't really matter although it SHOULD be all that matters. And why don't we just do something about it if we're so unhappy w/ our bodies? No clue. I'm not someone who HAD to work out when I was younger. Don't necessarily like to exercise and it's truly very hard (even if H says I'll watch the kids, you go) to actually get out there & do it. I've had to finally just force myself to do videos at home and sometimes even w/ the kids involved. It would be nice to go to the gym and actually have that time away, but it's really hard -- working full-time, get home, get everybody situated and do I want to go back out? Heck no!! Anyway, that's neither here nor there, but I guess that explains maybe WHY we don't actually do something about it if we are so unhappy w/ the way we look. That's my honest answer \:\)

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10