Nicola,

I have been trying to catch up on your thread. You and I are on about the same timeframe as far as when our H's left. It was 2 years for me on June 1.

You sound great and I admire your strength. As I was reading your post many of your thoughts sounded like mine. I too have been looking inside myself since my H left and have been working on needed changes.

I'll check in on you later,

K