I am also confused as to what woman would date/live with an unemployed man who is going through a divorce.
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I can answer that one, he is LYING his head off. As far as she knows he's got a job lines up, um, deciding which job to take, taking a break, anything! same goes for the D, he's got a good story going on there.

He is deluding himself, he still thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. Remember, it is not about her being better than you, it is about his inmaturity and his cowardice by taking the easy way out and just forget his responsabilities.

WAS make no sence 80% of the time, make the stupidest desicions (my would spend hundreds on new suits yet there were times he had to sleep in his car 'cause he had no where to stay,before that, he got an appt 2x as far from his job, you see?)

He's been "beemed up" to the mother ship. If i'm not mistaken you can have the court forbide him from having her aroudn the kids.

Stay strong and detach from his stupidity.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.