I really enjoyed reading your thread. I keep hearing that until the lbs truly let's go of the WAS/MLCer that they won't come back. That they can tell that when we haven't let go.
What does it feel like to truly let go? I act like I have let go and have stopped all contact with my H unless it has to do with our d7. Can you tell me how does the lbs feel when they have completely "dropped the rope?" I guess I thought I had let go b/c I am "acting the part". I have been told by many here that the WAS/MLC can sense that when the lbs really hasn't let go.
How did you treat your H during the 2 1/2 years apart when you did see him or talk with him or was their no contact?
