I thought about it a bit more after I posted and really feel I should stress to you that you stil have to TELL her how her rejection makes YOU FEEL. The fact that she FEELS unattractive doesn't really change your feelings when you are rejected constantly.
Have you ever made comments that to you may have seemed like teasing to you but hurtful to her?
My H after our 1st 2 kids were born used to make the remark to friends that I was twice the woman he'd married. He thought it was funny or teasing because I did go up 2 sizes like I said before but I was really thin and not obese in any way. Never been more than a size 12/14 or U.S. 8/10. One time he did it and I laughed and said yep and when I married you you had jet black hair now its mostly grey. I said it teasingly the way he did and he NEVER made that comment again!!!!
Sometimes a remark made in so called fun is really hurtful. As regards her body issues maybe she's got stretched down below to the point where she hates how she looks.
Being reassuring about how she looks is great but you've been doing that and nothing has improved so far. Thats why its so important you TELL her how the rejection makes you feel.
Keep pushing for answers like you just did. The fact you're being playful is brilliant but don't stop until you get results.
Lots of luck hope you get luckier soon LOL shmagic
