Hi CM and YoYo, Thanks for checking on me YoYo! I decided not to ask H about OW with some advice from a friend. I was probably too emotional about it at the time and really, what difference would it make? I decided to act as if I saw nothing and walking into the L's office with a smile on my face and a bounce in my step and cracking jokes. It worked for the time being because about 3 hours after our appt., he TMd to ask me if I got a new tattoo (which is completely out there because there was nothing on me that could even look like a tattoo) and made reference to a joke that was made in the L office. I told him no. So, he was either checking in with me to see if I was really "ok" with the whole thing or he was just reaching out a little.
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is the D a for sure thing or just a maybe right now?
It's pretty much a sure thing CM. I don't see any sign of H turning back or having second thoughts.
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Can you see if he would go to lunch w/ you or something?
I'm scared to even ask. About a week ago, we made arrangements to talk about D at the house while D10 was with a babysitter and it was very awkward.
It all feels pretty hopeless. I think he is too far gone to ever want to come back. Any advice or thoughts are welcome! Thanks! UB
