Braveheart, thanks for your reply, I don't know if you read my post wrong but I didn't say it would be easier if I die, no I meant it would have been easier if xh had died, at least that way it would be final and he couldn't keep stirring the chit for us. Geez been doing some more packing today, didn't realise I had so much, but I ain't leaving him anything, I'll either take it or bin it.
