J, the phone calls, no matter who or what put the idea in his head, sound very good! No one told him what to say or how to act while on the phone, and it all sounded pleasant :0)
About the L--it is a scary thing to get this part done, but you are doing the right thing. No matter what we may think, you have to protect yourself and your kids. We were already caught off guard once with the bomb; but this is too important to get blindsided by. Now, remember what the Ls are paid to do--some of it will seem overly harsh, but that is the way they are, what they get paid for. Get the info and rights you need to know, and take the rest with a grain of salt.
