Hey Dana,

You sound like you are doing great. I can only aspire to be as happy in myself as you are. You really seem to have accepted what has happened to you and moved on.

It sounds like you have an absolutely fantastic summer planned. Make sure you have plenty of fun.

May I ask you a question? You seem to have moved on so much, when will you know it is time to sever links with the H totaly? How long will you wait for him to start treating you as you wish to be treated?

I have a similar situation in that my W is treating me very badly. She is still seeing OM, we are living in same house at the moment, but shortly about to separate. There are two kids involved 2 and 5 so it is a little different I guess, however I feel the way she treats me is like she just doesn't really care what she is doing to me. She says she wants to be friends, but I wouldn't be friends with anyone that treats me this badly.

I just wanted to ask your opinion as you seem to be doing so well!

Good luck for the summer.