Sounds like your doing good. History does count and your D7 will always be that bond no matter what W is doing in her life.
The question will surly come in time for you as it did for me..... Do I necessarily want that bond to go beyond admiration or caring for S well being?
In other words, you'll be asking yourself if you would ever want to be romantic with her again.
Most short timers and fewer old timers on here would scoff at that notion, but you will be faced with it if your situation goes on for any length of time.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
