And the GALing is a big help. I have been surrounding myself with family and friends (people that love me and enjoy my company), and I am doing all the things I would never be allowed if I was still in a R with my W.
The more I do for myself and DD the less time I have to think about anything else.
WAW, So what if she is having more fun with OM. The euphoria will fizzle. And you don't know how good the relationship is with OM, you are just guessing at the moment. Maybe it is not as fun as you think.
Maybe your W might secretly be having second thoughts about it, or thinks about the things you two used to do when she is with OM. Maybe she is too scared to admit to her mistake, you just don't know.
All I know is the history has to count for something. We may have made mistakes to get us into this sitch, but time will always heal these wounds.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
