You really do have so much to be thankful for. Things could be so much worse. When I finally realised this, that is when I decided to detach and let go 100%.
Mind you I still have my moments when I do get angry (mainly all the lies and inconsideration), but what am I angry for? It won't change anything.
So I just ignore those moments and let them pass. And with each day, those "angry moments" become less severe and pass quicker.
I have also projected my future with or without W, and either way I will be happy. Like I said, whatever happens to us (whether we get back with our S or not), it will always be a positive outcome.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
