Is MC making it worse?

[mkultra]

I really do think my MC made things worse and so does a lot of friendly advice from friends. MC probably works against DBing for me. MY therapist tried to provide inspiration for me to be a sinle mom like herself. She kept sending me messages that I would be OK if I had to be independent and to let him go since he clearly does not want me. My girlfriends said the same thing. I would have believed that too in the past. Now DB has made me look at Divorce differently. It really does not solve anything we expect it to solve.