These are all really great ideas. Another author mentioned to repeat that you are glad that the other person came into your life. It is OK to aknowledge that you are positive about the past and it does not say "I love you" or seem threatening. It simply says you had a past and you choose to select positive not negative memories from this moment on. This has helped me a lot. So I will say, "I am glad that you came into my life." Period, no love no threats, no tears. I am hapy for that gift and happy for my kids and happy I had love once before I lost it. Maybe it will come back for both of us if we are positive. PS happy Father's Day!


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."