Mkultra just mentioned something in her thread that really worries me - actually it just solidifies a worry I've already had. She said she's losing her attraction for her husband by going dark...

HOW can my wife maintain, or gain new attraction to me if we NEVER see each other?

How long can we go before she's just forgotten me? If she wasn't important to me, I'd forget her tomorrow. If I'm out of sight out of mind, I'm forgotten, aren't I?

I know I have no choice in the matter, and that's fine, but how can this possibly have a good ending if we NEVER interact at all?

I know people want to try to convince me this forced darkness is good, I just can't see it. I'm OK with not being able to be in her face ALL the time, but never even a word between us? I don't know...

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...