Good to hear it.

Let's review some key points:

He's an a$$hole.

He's in a MLC.

He's "confused".

He wants to get in touch with his "feeligs".

His attempt at getting to know himself entails screwing a desperate homewrecker who will screw around on him given half the chance.

You are a goddess.

You are sweet.

You are forgiving.

You are beautiful.

You have a clear moral center.

You are buff.

You are sexy.

You are fun.

You are proactive.

Most guys would kill to have a woman like you.

You have a heart of gold.

You love your children.

You have character.

You are deep.

You are a goddess...did I already say that?

You are a goddess...there...I said it three times, therefore it must be true.

Now...review the points above.

Having any trouble detaching now?

Err...who needs to be on pins andneedles? Not you. You are a prize. It's Mr. Can't Keep His D%ck in His Pants who should be worried. He's about to lose the best thing in his life.

Start believing that....and you'll be fine. Whatever the outcome.

--Theoden