I've been at the house with my husband since this afternoon.
Stayed for dinner and just got home.

His surgery is tomorrow morning.
I am not taking him but I am going over there after work and will stay as long as necessary. I have also arranged to go in late Tuesday so I can go check on him first thing in the morning.

The reason he won't let me take him is just as I thought.
He remembers when I didn't give a damn and is having a hard time wrapping his mind around the fact that I'm really going to be there now. He told me as much today. So his Dad is taking him and I will go to work. But I am most definitely going to be there tomorrow night and Tuesday morning and I'll go back after work Tuesday if I need to.

In fact, I'll drive back and forth for however damn long it takes for him to know that I am going to ALWAYS be there.