So her family members have affairs together and somehow this affects her relationship with you? How exactly does that work?
It was how it affected her, not our R. I think it got her thinking about her unhappiness and that she only has so much time on this earth, etc.
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and she's taking your kids to Texas while you stay in FL. I'm not getting this. What other reasons has she given for separating and LEAVING TOWN? That seems so drastic. Why would a woman want to take her boys away from their DAD? These women that don't get that a boy needs his dad amaze me.
It is really complicated, but we are from TX and just after the bomb, I promised her that I would find a job there. In the meantime, I have decided I need to stay with my current employer for at least another year for several reasons. I will eventually follow them there and in the near term may even work 1/2 to 3/4 time there, depending on how things work out.
She knows how important the relationship between the boys and me is and has promised not to ever restrict our access to one another.
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