I read all everyone's advice etc. and I don't see how you do it. My husband and I have been separated since January. He moved out to get some space - we had a 90 day window to get both our acts together. Well, about a month after he moved out he met the woman of his dreams (successful, no kids)-he claimed for months that nothing was going on etc. This is until I found out about her - he was still coming to the house a lot for dinners with the family etc. He is now living with her and has introduced her to the kids. How do you not flip out at them? I feel so betrayed and lied to I want to rip his head off? I am also confused as to what woman would date/live with an unemployed man who is going through a divorce. I am so confused... M - 12 years Separated - Jan. 07 Divorce Filed - May 07 (by me after I found out about the OW)