What do I do with this cr**???

[bambam1970]

Oh DNQ..I don't think you are a pig. And I don't think you are shallow for your opinion.

The fact is I had gained weight since my kids were born and didn't take care of myself. My H has always been so needy in the way of attention b/c he had such a rough childhood and was rejected by his mom. So, I spent most of my marriage trying to build him up and being so supportive - I don't regret that part. BUT, in the process, I forgot about me. So, I see that now.

Since we separated, I've lost the weight and than some. I've cut my hair short and bouncy (w/a little blonde, too!) and pretty much have a new wardrobe b/c nothing fit anymore!

I wear more fitted clothes and heals!! I feel pretty now.

Today, H dropped boys off at the pool and I was wearing my new bathing suit - 2 sizes smaller!! I think he noticed.

Being hotter than other mom...don't know about that. She is still thinner than I with long legs ... bleck! I know I have more character and prettier on the inside. Still hard to feel like I"m compared to her.

Thanks for your input DNQ. You really have some good insight. I appreciate it and your positive thoughts!

Thanks DNQ! You have helped me today!

bambam