Hi Jeff,

I appreciate your comments. I'll check out your thread.

Hi hopeful,

I appreciate your comments as well. It's really frustrating when so-called "friends" say things like, "Don't be stupid." Most of these people weren't married long enough, so they didn't have any rights to each other's earnings.

I know this sounds really really stupid, but sometimes I even find myself defending WAH when people start calling him names. I know he's an inconsiderate, back-stabbing, #@$*@!#^& jerk...ha!

I look forward to the day when it will all be behind me. I, too, pray for everyone on these boards.

All my best,
alamogirl


Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb)
H - 43
married - 16 Jul 94
no children
1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06
2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06
H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06
Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07