H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
I've been at the house with my husband since this afternoon. Stayed for dinner and just got home.
His surgery is tomorrow morning. I am not taking him but I am going over there after work and will stay as long as necessary. I have also arranged to go in late Tuesday so I can go check on him first thing in the morning.
The reason he won't let me take him is just as I thought. He remembers when I didn't give a damn and is having a hard time wrapping his mind around the fact that I'm really going to be there now. He told me as much today. So his Dad is taking him and I will go to work. But I am most definitely going to be there tomorrow night and Tuesday morning and I'll go back after work Tuesday if I need to.
In fact, I'll drive back and forth for however damn long it takes for him to know that I am going to ALWAYS be there.
One of those humbling experiences eh....learning from our past mistakes.
