Yes I was most gracious and appreciative. He said he knew that I would appreciate the gesture. He mailed money to us each week for about a month. He then started wanting to drop it off. He wanted to continue the cake-eating even tho he was engaged at the time. I did not know of his engagement until afterward. I wasn't going to see him.
My stitch is different. We were engaged and in counseling to prepare for marriage when he met ow. I had to approach it differently than you should your situation.
Your faith will get you through this. I so appreciated the dream that you had about the out of control bus. Keep praying, Dear One.
