Yesterday ended up being a good day. He spent the night last night cuz he'd been drinking. (He slept on the couch... thank goodness, cuz at one point I could hear him snoring all the way up here!! ) He said "D, I have to tell you..." and I said "I know... this doesn't mean you're moving back".
We laughed and smiled a lot. He said it looked good on me. We talked about who I used to be... who he fell in love with... he described me as fun! (Ha!! Remember? That's what I said!!) He said again he's working on becoming my friend, not my nemesis. He said he didn't know if we could ever come back together again. I told him that I knew we could, I just didn't know when. I told him again that I thought he was placing a lot of blame on me to help ease his guilt. He laughed!!
We were very civil. He told me he was amazed at how I'm handling it. He thanked me for calling his bluff the day he said he needed to move out and I asked if he wanted me to pack his bags. He thanked me for letting 7yo live with him.
There were no ILYs... it was just really easy conversation... like we were friends again... or that we could be friends again, ya know?
It was just weird. I think we both enjoyed being in each other's company yesterday. There was no tension... probably because he realizes I'm not gonna beg him to come back and probably because I know we're not close to that happening.
I don't know... it just felt good.
Ooohh! We did talk about my "jab" the other night... about how if he doesn't like something I say or my tone, he just leaves. He said yes, he does, he doesn't need to put up with "it". I forget what my response was, but it was something close to BS... LOL!!
Of course, I fell right to sleep again last night, but was up at 4:30 this morning!!!! I had to sneak down stairs to get my laptop and book!!
I just remembered something... He said he's two different people... he's different around me and he's working on that. Apparently an aunt in CA mentioned it to him or to his uncle, who relayed it back to him... "She said you're different around HER". WTH? We saw these people once every couple of years for like a few hours!! I think I might have to bring that up today. When he moved from So. Cal, he was in junior high!! He's an adult now... I hope he's different from then! Dumb @$$e$!!! For goodness sake, the man is married and has children!! Pisses me off!!
Okay, well, I think I'm gonna go back to bed for a little while since everyone is still asleep!!
Oh...and no rain. It was 99 yesterday (officially 98 which was a record... lol). I don't think it was supposed to get that hot (it was supposed to be in the low 90s an they were predicting the same for today). It's absolutely gorgeous!! It's already 75!
(He also offered to give me the PW for his my space page... said he really is just using it to keep an eye out on DS.)
) He said "D, I have to tell you..." and I said "I know... this doesn't mean you're moving back".
I forget what my response was, but it was something close to BS... LOL!! 
