ATGO,

Thanks for your supportive post. I do feel better. It is getting easier with each day.

I still find it hard being cheerful with W. I really have no emotion with her at the moment, but am still civil and polite and keeping our conversation to a minimum. This is the best I can do at the moment. I find it hard looking at her, I suppose this is part of my process that is making the detaching easier.

AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."