Bis,
The only thing I would do if I were you, is send a text message, happy father's day.
Nothing else.

I might not follow my own advice to you. I might put together a scrap book of pictures of the girls. He want some pictures of him he told me Monday.
If I have time this week , I might.
OR, I might let the girls put together a scrap book for him, and I will select the pictures and pay for it.
He would know where it came from.

But at your stage of the game, I would not do anything.
A DB rule: no gifts. This is a pursuing behavior.

Hi Spit,
are you married yet?
I would come to your wedding!!!!!(grin) Yes, I remember what you said........

Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.