Hey Andyv, you sound much better than earlier in the week. Your really starting to understand what you do and don't have control over. Good for you guy, it really will help you to GAL and PMA when your not thinking so much of her actions/activity.
As far as some WAW's spewing out about who they are going to f&ck, invite to dinner, or do whatever, it's all part of the script. They hate the thought of being "controlled" and will lash out at you if they perceive you are trying to control their actions. Ignore them and be indifferent to what plans they volunteer. I don't know why they do this, but mine does it to even after a year and a half of separation. BTW, I NEVER tell her what I'm doing.
Anymore, I don't go there. She tells me her plans voluntarily when I have S7, but I don't really pay that much attention to it anymore. I can sense when she's lying to me, but I don't say anything. I just acknowledge her with an "OK".
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain