Your W seems to be trying to get some sympathy reaction out of you. Let her live her life, and don't react to it ... although, it seems you have everything under control, and don't really need that advice, except as a reminder.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim