Remember how I told you this whole divorce thing is an up and down experience? You are sounding a bit down... and it could just be part of a down phase. You are dealing with a lot of sheet from your 2bx.
You are also falling into that self-beating trap you used to fall into when your 2bx would slam you... meaning, I sense that you are coming 'down' on yourself in some way for not necessarily being attracted to 'normal' men.
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Actually, it's probably a good thing that I'm not attracted to nice, normal men because a nice,normal man probably wouldn't find it very validating to be in a relationship with me.
And... how would that be YOUR problem? And how is it even a problem until it, in fact... happens? You've been married for the last 20 years... how could you possibly KNOW this?
Fact is, you don't, and you are coming down on my friend Mo. Stop, please. I really like her.
What happened to the half indian guy and the guy who had the Tibetan Monk in his kitchen?
