Gross, why would you want to have sex with someone to whom you are not attracted? This is the very definition of LD.
I guess I'm just questioning the "why" of my attraction. For instance, there are several nice, normal men in my "box" to whom I could have responded if I wanted a date this weekend. However, for some reason, I am not attracted to nice, normal men. So, I went to the beach this afternoon and scoped out a gang of tattooed Hispanic guys (Unfortunately, I am lacking the advanced HD-MILF skills that would allow me to extract one from the pack for my personal use (sigh)). Actually, it's probably a good thing that I'm not attracted to nice, normal men because a nice,normal man probably wouldn't find it very validating to be in a relationship with me.
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Sometimes sex drive falls off for very good reasons, and one should not ignore their instincts.
Well, this is probably true but more relevant to my sich would be the fact that sometimes sex drive goes up for very "bad" reasons and one should very much try to ignore one's instincts. Afterall, libido is defined as the instinctual energy or force that can conflict with the conventions of civilized behavior.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
