Thats okay sadadinkc, you vent all you like, you are more than welcome.

I agree with you, my W invited OM over (when I was working overnight) and cooked him dinner with DD (she never cooks for me, I do all the cooking, she has cooked possibly a dozen times in 17 years).

Both OM and W picked up DD from school before the dinner. She tried to hide it from me, but my DD told me the next day. I was furious. She said that he was just a good friend and that she was entitled to invite who she wanted.

Well this was around 3 weeks ago. No she has admitted that this good friend is in a R with her, and it just happened now (I knew about them back in Feb, confirmed through snooping).

She has told her family and friends that she is in a "new" relationship, after pretending to them that things were not working between us (between Jan and now). All lies to make herself look good that she tried and OM was not in the picture until now.

Last edited by andyv; 06/09/07 11:36 PM.

AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."