Hugs Yoyo -
I think sometimes that we believe that they feel like they're better than us, but inside.. how can someone who has torn apart their family and committed adultery feel better than someone else?? We all go through those self-pity moments.. trust me.. I've had mine!! and have seen no progress lately either.. Soooo darn frustrating. But, you are doing great to not show him that anything is bothering you.

Sounds to me like you are a great woman and other men are seeing that as well. Your husband is a dumba$$. He probably made the comment because he would like you to attack him but knows he doesn't have the right to ask for anything!!!