Snodderly, rcr, and any other old timers

[BeingMe]

Seek legal advice ... they will find out how long he has been working, what he earns, etc. In Canada, if two people have lived together for more than a year, they are considered common law spouses, and are entitled to the same rights as any other spouse. Is this not the same in England (I might be wrong, but I seem to remember that that's where you live)? If it is, then you are entitled to half the house, half of everything, plus spousal support, and child support. Do not pussyfoot around ... get what is owing to you, fair and square. If he says you signed something, then he needs to produce the proof, and you will be able to see if he forged your signature. In which case, that is fraud, and he could go to jail ... wouldn't that be nice for his new wifey?

Now is not the time to be nice (especially since you don't want him back). You need to fight for your and your son's rights.

Good luck with the move. Remember the old saying - "the best revenge is a life well lived". So true!